Eventuality, everything connects. Finding peace in the unknown is not something we that found ourselves in this full time job called over thinking find easy to do. As a senior over thinker, I'd much rather know what's up from the jump. Like lemme know what's good from the go, I don't find peace in not … Continue reading The Eventuality of Things.
What comes to mind when I think of boundaries ,is a fence!Before you start rushing to ask how they connect let me explain.Fences allow you to protect what's valuable to you ,they allow you to control who and what enters your space that's precisely what personal boundaries do.They may not be obvious as a fence … Continue reading Boundaries
I'm not going to start the year by lying,heaven knows I want to tell less lies this year,not completely no lies but less lies. You know lies can be a good thing too,right? I struggle with forgiving,not just others but also forgiving myself. I'm not the type that will easily forgive and just forget. Especially … Continue reading Not just forgiving,but forgiving myself.
You ever feel stuck,? Not knowing what to choose, what roads to tread on. How much of you to keep giving? You feel the pressure of the choice you have to make pressing on,that you are almost ready to allow yourself drown. Suddenly feel the need to make a sacrifice? One that only you can … Continue reading The reality of “being stuck”.
Power. A five letter word that opens doors to other biiiiig words like respect, wealth, class,success,control,access, fame,better health care,you name it. A big part of the past and modern day society. We can not just ignore this element as a part of our day to day life because whether you like it or not,a reminder … Continue reading The Quest For Power.
You meet this person,your energies match and you immediately want a relationship with them,as friends or romantic partners. They are your typical alpha male/female,looks are an almost sure bet that your children won't have to worry about them not being attractive enough. In addition to this,they have a sob story about their life experiences, and … Continue reading The Broken Wing Theory.
I have a number of fears. Some rational,some completely irrational but that doesn't make them any less of a fear. If i was to define fears,i would say that these are responses to deeply rooted traumatic experiences we happen to have experienced but not had the chance to deal with them. Scared moments of emotionally, … Continue reading Fears.
There comes a time when we all want to disappear for a while ,not that we don’t want to exist simply that we want to rediscover ourselves or even refill what we have poured out . Most people misinterpret this with being lonely while its not , since its just you wanting to be alone … Continue reading The cure for LONELINESS is not COMPANY.
We mostly view failure as a negative thing,when infact its only through failure we are enabled to strike new paths .Often at times we tend to think of success as a path that is well known ,which is not .Most people tend to think of failure as fatal ,when its an opportunity to more intelligently … Continue reading Failure.
My definition of unlearning would be a process of consciously un-subscribing or moving away from a certain way of forming perceptions/understanding which in turn results to a change in one's point of view and ultimately change in behaviour. Usually caused by knowing better about something you once did not know,or was unknowingly oblivious of. The … Continue reading Unlearning
Have you ever wondered why most people tend to have this bundle of joy on Friday ?Well,am here to unveil that for you so enjoy the ride .As humans we tend to associate our happiness with something or somebody,which shouldn't be the case as we should be happy all the time. Happiness is something you … Continue reading Make everyday a Friday.
I remember the last time i had a "difficult" or sensitive conversation with someone, how things unfolded was really not how i had hopped they would. I literally had everything planned out in my head,that is,what i was going to say when what was said to me,what emotions i was going to portray so as … Continue reading Difficult conversations.
Often at times we tend to let people own our joy instead of us being incharge of it.In as much as we may care for our families or friends we have to let them own their happiness and stop being cluthes to their happiness.We downplay the fact that people can find their way through their … Continue reading Own your happiness.
It's not once or twice you've seen a post on social media,or heard a friend talking about zero expectations. From the ones I've seen and listened to, i was able to pick the notion that we should try our very best not to expect,or have expectations on the different people in our lives,reason being avoiding … Continue reading Expectations
DO's to healthy friendships.Making friends as an adult may seem difficult because we are focused on getting things done to the very least try and hit life goals which we set for ourselves. Maintaining the connections is still another topic of discussion which begs today's post. More like the do's of healthy (adult) friendships.~ Healthy … Continue reading Do’s to healthy friendships.