Success redefined.

Success is one of life's element that we all must agree has crossed our minds at one point in time. Society has normalised the idea of material wealth and possession to be the defining factor of one being termed as successful. By now y'all already know here at evolve we rarely go by what society …

What if THIS is IT.

This reminds me of all the dreams and goals I had growing up. My tainted perception of what success looks like, how it should feel like. By the time I hit my early twenties, like most young adults, I want to have moved out, not sure if it's running away from something or finding myself …

Detaching

What prompts one to let go of people they valued and things ? It's a question I have been pondering on for the past few weeks . Don't know if this is all in my head or something,but there is an elevation that comes naturally when you want more from life and yourself in general. …

Is Anybody Loyal Anymore?

It has been a question that I have been pondering on for a hot minute now .Like are we really loyal to people or things but in this case it's people ;are we really loyal to people or are we just loyal to the opportunities that we get when we associate with them ?It's no …

The Eventuality of Things.

Eventuality, everything connects. Finding peace in the unknown is not something we that found ourselves in this full time job called over thinking find easy to do. As a senior over thinker, I'd much rather know what's up from the jump. Like lemme know what's good from the go, I don't find peace in not …

The Perfect Goodbye

Is there any particular great way of saying goodbye to a loved ,a place or a skill?Goodbyes are hard and challenging , especially when they feel as though time has been robbed and taken away from us .We have all found ourselves in a place where we have to let go of someone or something …

Let’s Talk Trauma.

What is trauma? Trauma can be defined as an emotional response to a terrible , predictable or unpredictable event, events or variety of events that can cause long term reactions like unpredictable emotions, flashbacks, fear, etc. This can result to mental health issues like post traumatic stress disorder and depression, strained relationships, avoidance, anxiety, alcohol …

Opportunities

Sometimes we're to rigid to let ourselves evolve ;in the essence that we want to continue doing what we only feel and think we are skilled in ,while failing to understand that there is more to us other than what we have discovered .We get to comfortable at times in a place that we think …

Navigating new realities

Every time I find myself thinking about what analogy would best describe life for me, I tend to think about a journey. A really long journey into the unknown, a journey to self discovery, a journey of growth, a journey of frustrating moments, a journey of winning and losing. I think life is designed to …

5 Books For Boss Ladies

One of the most common goal that women have is to read more .We are cognizant of the power we gain from a reading culture and how it can help us run the world .In the spirit of empowering women this Women's month I am going to share with you five books that will inspire …

The Realities We Create.

How much of the reality you are living now has been created by you? I know the talk about expectations has crossed your ears by now. The one about having low expectations of people in your life, just so you don't get disappointed when they don't meet them? On one of my previous posts,Expectations i …

Just do it

Who doesn't always love that spicy and victorious ending ?I guessed it right ,we all do if not all I definetly do .When you have one of those days that you don't feel like doing anything,simply wanting to just lay there ,chill for a moment with no disturbance from a single soul ,but guess what …

So you want change?

Today's blog post is partly inspired by an episode we had on our podcast chanel. Since I started thinking about life with depth,and not just the face value of things that happen as we journey through life,the question on how or better yet what is a meaningful life and how does living a more meaningful …

Valentine’s the single way.

"The month of love,"as most people like to call it ,is here with us.February 14th a day that excites some poeple while others find it dreadful ,especially the the single poeple ,let's face it .The origin of valentine day is pretty obscure ,the historical roots of the celebration still remain ambiguous .However over the years …

Boundaries

What comes to mind when I think of boundaries ,is a fence!Before you start rushing to ask how they connect let me explain.Fences allow you to protect what's valuable to you ,they allow you to control who and what enters your space that's precisely what personal boundaries do.They may not be obvious as a fence …